On Love marriage or romantic relationships

 On Love marriage or romantic relationships 

What's your take on it?

By Naeem Khan.

One of the counterargument for Love marriage or any relationship based on love is its ephemeral or temporary existence.  Love marriages usually are fallen apart. There are separations or divorces.   There is instability. 

It means Love ❤ can't be made the foundation of any relationship as the edifice will fall. It means we should go only for stable or permanent stuff. But there is NOTHING like that in this life or universe.  The only permanent thing is CHANGE. 

It's better to part than to stick and suffer. Let go and have your own path.  Why should one suffer just to keep enact something unpleasant.  Why not to remove the bad smell with a fragrance. Though it needs courage as usually we can't take bold decisions and keep on crushing under the status quo. 

When there is no more love,  automatically the relationship will be done away with.  We break many relations when these are intolerable or not working as friendships, jobs,  businesses etc, so why not personal relationships? That's why divorce is a legal option.  

If both parents are responsible together, they can be responsible separately for their children.  It's better to have silence 🔕 than having fights and terrifying the innocent kids. 

Love is a beautiful sentiment and it doesn't finish so easily.  Sentimentality is not love.  Love has mutual understanding and commitment.  There is collaboration, coordination and communication. Real love may stay the whole life. If it doesn't stay, it means it's no more there and the reality may be accepted wholeheartedly. 

If you can't love, it means you're a barren land. Sow some seeds of romance, music,  literature, poetry, art , philosophy,  psychology, traveling, natural beauty and friendship ; you'll find the spark. Cultivate your this hidden flame to be a volcano 🌋 but harmless.