On arranged marriage. Blog By Naeem Khan, CSP Officer.

 On arranged marriage. Blog By Naeem Khan, CSP Officer.

Do you agree that arranged marriage or relationship is the defeat of your personality? 

Once other arrange for you,  it means that you can't arrange it for yourself.  You're not a good manager of your life. You can't impress others. You have no communication skills or interpersonal skills. 

It's like prostitution that you hire services of others in place of earning love and attention with your own capabilities and wisdom. 

Only loose and lazy depend on others as parasites.  They lack self-confidence.  They can't face their partners so others bring a ready-made package.  

Once others do it for you, be ready for their roles in your personal affairs.  Then others will manipulate.  They'll exploit.  They'll interfere because they did it for you. When you do it, you're responsible.  They can't intervene. 

It's a matter of extreme shame that you get involved others in your such important decision of life.  Don't be lousy. Get up. Gird up. Win 🏆 your own game.